That "Oriental" girl
We had company the other evening, and we were sitting around watching American Idol when
Ramiele (Ramiel) Malubay was eliminated from the final competition. One of our friends slipped and said, "Too bad the Oriental girl lost out." ARGHH!! ORIENTAL??? Like the rug???
I then remembered this weird exchange with a teacher, an older immigrant woman from a non-Asian country. In class she sued the term "Oriental" but not to refer to a rug or a vase but ME!!!! My APA programming kicking in, I didn't want to embarass her so I emailed her with a detailed note about how Oriental is for objects, and Asian American is for people. She never said anything about it, but later I heard that she still used that term.
It's hard enough for Asian Americans and anyone of color to redefine how we are perceived as a group when people who were born here keep using that irritating and historically condescending term, but then to hear it from "new" immigrants who are also educators??? What gives???
Signed, your rug lady.


